Even though Friends was pretty PG show most of the time, it had a secret, beautiful feminist core that really came through sometimes. Here, we take a look at the nine most feminist things about Friends — which was actually, as it turns out, way more progressive than you probably realized.

By now, you are almost certainly most-definitely singing the “Friends” theme song by The Rembrandts in your head. And if you aren’t? Well, then I commend either your control over ear worms or your ability to remain under a cultural rock — because “Friends” has arrived on Netflix.